The Art of Happiness And Being Kind

Discover The Art Of Happiness

Happiness is an art, which makes it hard for all of us to attain it.

Everyone has dreams and aspirations. Some people strive towards certain long-term goals, integrating their sense of self, their career, their relationships, and other aspects of their lives mindfully — and in such a way that they organize particular steps on how to find success and work on that plan.

Others are more content to live each day to the fullest, making the most of the different aspects of their lives even without a precise set of objectives, and finding small successes in short-term goals that they achieve.

Either way, everyone is trying to figure things out. In my understanding, what we’re really trying to figure out is the art of happiness.

I’m sure all of us have wondered, some more often than others, if we’re currently happy with our lives.

And if we realize we’re happy, we then ask, how do we continue being so?

And if we realize we’re not, how do we start working on it?

I don’t have a degree in psychology or anything, and I’m sure I’m only one of too many people to reflect out loud about the art of happiness, but let me speak from experience and take a crack at it anyway.

What can you do to be happy?

The Art Of Happiness: The 4 Things You Can Do

1. Start Here And Now

First and foremost, it’s important to stop delaying or postponing the search of what makes you happy. It helps to start simple.

You don’t have to engage so deeply in a philosophical discourse and quote from famous ancient Greek scholars.

You don’t have to get a life motto tattooed on your arm and consistently try to stick by it everyday.

You don’t have to repaint your entire house so that it will look cheerful and inspire you to feel the same.

If any of those helps, good. But what matters is this: start today.

The desire to have a profound definition of happiness will put so much pressure on you. Instead, focus on the many unexpected little ways to start reflecting on your life and the art of happiness.

Simply reading a book, dressing up nicely for yourself, baking cookies or walking around the community might be able to help.

The point is for you to put yourself in the mindset of actively wanting to be happy, instead of merely letting your ordinary day-to-day routine pass you by.

2. Work Towards A Healthy Lifestyle

Now that you’re in the mindset of being happy in small and simple ways, it’s also time to introduce small and simple changes to your lifestyle.

After reflecting on the ordinary things you do everyday, it helps to identify how you want to make them better.

A definitely beneficial step is to pursue the healthy lifestyle you’ve always known you needed, whether that means putting effort into a plant-based diet or a regular exercise routine or both.

After all, a healthy body and a healthy mind should work together. Relax once in a while. Take breaks from social media.

I’m sure being more mindful of your lifestyle practices will eventually have a payoff.

Work towards your happiness by becoming healthier

3. Make Positive Memories

No man is an island. As creatures with a social nature, it’s a significant part of our lives to cultivate our interpersonal relationships.

But it’s not enough just to ask your family or friends how they are every once in a while. To properly keep up with our intimate connections, we have to ensure we spend quality time together.

Do a fun activity with your peers, something that you miss because you haven’t done in so long. Go bowling. Redo your garden with your family. Have a picnic with your nieces and nephews.

I’m sure there are a lot of positive memories from the previous years that you go back to whenever you’re feeling down, so what’s stopping you from creating more of those?

Bond with your loved ones, help each other make fantastic memories, and I don’t know, take some selfies to immortalize those great moments? Again, it doesn’t matter how you do it; what matters is that you do.

Be thankful and happy

4. Express Gratitude And Exercise Kindness

Here’s where I go scientific about the art of happiness. Some studies have tried to recognize certain predictors to our well-being, and they consistently include these: gratitude and kindness.

Feeling grateful is an awesome mindset to maintain, though it doesn’t come naturally. We spend so much time wanting more that we forget to be thankful for what’s already there for us.

We forget that sometimes, good enough is good enough.

It takes practice to inculcate gratitude in oneself, so make it part of your life. Write a thank you note each day — to a parent, a friend, a co-worker, or even a stranger. (Science says you don’t even have to send the letter of gratitude, so long as you write it down and get to think about it.)

If you’re a spiritual person, say thanks through your prayers before going to sleep.

Perhaps most effectively, feel grateful and pay it forward. Interestingly enough, gratitude works best when the positive feelings associated with it translate into kindness.

Don’t be afraid to help out. Not only will it make you feel good about yourself, performing acts of kindness can even give you actual health benefits.

Express gratitude and exercise kindness

These are only a few steps that you can initiate towards discovering the art of happiness. The specific answers, of course, will depend on your own history and your future goals.

But then, if you’re only going to follow four words from my list of tips, choose these: start here and now.

You might be surprised at the happiness — and more potential of it — that is already present around you, if you just look close enough.

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